When ten of us first starting meeting to develop this vision of communal living, we decided to be each other's family. In the house, that is exactly what we have become. Each of us in a way belongs to the other nine. Each day, our special bond grows deeper. I don't think this bond will ever go away, regardless of what happens.
In November, Mel told us she would be moving out after the holidays. Two weeks ago... she did. A situation in the house had grown too painful and living there was no longer the best thing for her. There is no fault to hand out... it is what it is.
This past Monday, the other nine of us sat down for our house dinner and the room felt so empty. Mel was missing. Her smile (smirk really) was missing... her laugh. None of this is fair. I miss my friend.
Mel is now traveling in South America for a couple months. She is missed and loved and will forever be part of my family.
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